Mary Oliver (1935-2019) – Faith Shaper

23 Mar 2026 | Faith-shaping Poets | 0 comments

Mary Oliver was born and raised in Maple Hills Heights, a suburb of Cleveland, Ohio. Abused as a child by her father and neglected by her mother, she commented ‘I was very little. But I had recurring nightmares; there’s damage.’[1] She described the setting: ‘It was very dark and broken house that I came from…. To this day I don’t care for the enclosure of buildings.’[2] Her retreat from a difficult home and family took her to the nearby woods, where she would build huts of sticks and grass and write poems. As a young poet, Oliver was deeply influenced by the Pulitzer prize-winner, Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892-1950), and briefly lived in Millay’s home, helping Norma Millay organize her sister’s papers. Oliver was notoriously reticent about her private life, but it was during this period that she met her long-time partner and photographer, Molly Malone Cook (1925-2005). The couple moved to Provincetown, Massachusetts, and the surrounding Cape Cod landscape had a marked influence on Oliver’s work. Her poetry is firmly rooted in it, and is known for its clear and revealing observations and evocative use of the natural world.

Her main theme was the meeting of the human and natural world, together with a sensitive awareness of transcendence in the interaction. This was her personal testimony: ‘It was a very bad childhood for everybody, every member of the household, not just myself, I think. And I escaped it, barely, with years of trouble. But I did find the entire world in looking for something. But I got saved by poetry. And I got saved by the beauty of the world.’[3] Mary Oliver also believed that ‘poetry wishes for a community. It’s a community ritual, certainly.’[4]

Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,

the world offers itself to your imagination,

Calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting –

over and over announcing your place

in the family of things.[5]

Although she was not a churchgoer there were several significant references and allusions to Biblical stories and Christian themes. These relate to nearly all the twelve Christian ‘Faith Markers’ which have shaped this selection. However the headlines are in no way intended to colonise the poet.[6] Most of the poems are taken from her own personal selection, Devotions (2017). In the intensity of her poetry, Mary Oliver searched beneath the accepted priorities of contemporary culture and reason to discover the insight and spiritual realism that is evident in all her writings. As Ruth Franklin concluded in her article in The New Yorker (20th November 2017): ‘She tends to use nature as a springboard to the sacred which is the beating heart of her work.’

…in spring there’s hope,

in fall the exquisite, necessary diminishing, in

winter I am as sleepy as any beast in its

leafy cage, but in summer there is

everywhere the luminous sprawl of gifts,

the hospitality of the Lord and my

inadequate answers as I row my beautiful, temporary body

through this water-lily world.[7]

  

  1. Our Father: Hallowed on Earth as in Heaven

 

 I WAKE CLOSE TO MORNING

Why do people keep asking to see

God’s identity papers

When the darkness opening into morning

is more than enough?

Certainly any god might turn away in disgust.

Think of Sheba approaching

the kingdom of Solomon.

Do you think she had to ask,

‘Is this the place?’

From ‘Felicity’, 2015. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 3.

 

 THE SUNFLOWERS

Come with me

into the field of sunflowers.

Their faces are burnished disks,

their dry spines

 

creak like ship masts,

their green leaves,

so heavy and many,

fill all the day with the sticky

 

sugars of the sun.

Come with me

to visit the sunflowers,

they are shy

 

but want to be friends;

they have wonderful stories

of when they were young-

the important weather,

 

the wandering crows.

Don’t be afraid

to ask the questions!

Their bright faces,

 

which follow the sun,

will listen, and all

those rows of seeds-

each one a new life!-

 

hope for a deeper acquaintance;

each of them, though it stands

in a crowd of many,

like a separate universe,

 

is lonely, the long work

of turning their lives

into a celebration

is not easy. Come

 

and let us talk with those modest faces,

the simple garment of leaves,

the coarse roots in the earth

so uprightly burning.

From ‘Dream Work’, 1986. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 361-362.

 

EVIDENCE

Beauty without purpose is beauty without virtue.

But all beautiful things, inherently, have this function –

to excite the viewers toward sublime thought.

Glory to the world, that good teacher.

From ‘Evidence’, 2009. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 80.

 

 2  The Bible: Bestowed Word of God

 

LOGOS

Why worry about the loaves and the fishes?

If you say the right words, the wine expands.

If you say them with love

and the felt ferocity of that love

and the felt necessity of that love,

the fish explode into many.

Imagine him, speaking,

and don’t worry about what is reality,

or what is plain, or what is mysterious.

If you were there, it was all those things.

If you can imagine it, it is all those things.

Eat, drink, be happy.

Accept the miracle.

Accept, too, each spoken word

Spoken with love.

From ‘Why I awake early’, 2004. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 179.

 

  1. Jesus Christ: Crucified God in Person

 

THE POET THINKS ABOUT THE DONKEY

On the outskirts of Jerusalem

the donkey waited.

Not especially brave, or filled with understanding,

he stood and waited.

 

How horses, turned out into the meadow,

            leap with delight!

How doves, released from their cages,

            clatter away, slashed with sunlight!

 

But the donkey tied to a tree as usual, waited.

Then he let himself be led away.

Then he let the stranger mount….

From ‘Thirst’, 2006. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 130.

  

  1. Humanity: Sinful, Rebellious and Faithless

 

 OF THE EMPIRE

We will be known as a culture that feared death

and adored power, that tried to vanquish insecurity

for a few  and cared little for the penury of the

many. We will be known as a culture that taught

and rewarded the amassing of  things, that spoke

little if at all about the quality of life for

people (other people), for dogs, for rivers. All

the world, in our eyes, they will say, was a

commodity. And they will say that this structure

was held together politically, which  it was, and

they will say also that our politics was no more

than an apparatus to accommodate the feelings of

the heart, and that the heart, in those days,

was small, and hard, and full of meanness.

From ‘Red Bird’, 2008. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 112.

                     

  1. The Grace of God: Justifying and Converting

 

THE GIFT

Be still my soul, and steadfast.

Earth and heaven both are still watching

though time is draining from the clock

and your walk, that was confident and quick,

has become slow.

 

So be slow if you must, but let

the heart still play its true part.

Love still as once you loved, deeply,

and without patience. Let God and the world

know you are grateful

that the gift has been given.

From ‘Felicity’, 2015. Devotions: The selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 14.

 

  1. Christian Living: Progressive Christ-likeness

 

SIX RECOGNITIONS OF THE LORD. No. 5.

Oh, feed me this day, Holy Spirit, with

the fragrance of the fields and the

freshness of the oceans which you have

made, and help me to hear and to hold

in all dearness those exacting and wonderful

words of our Lord Jesus Christ, saying:

Follow me.

From ‘Thirst’, 2006,

Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 127.

 

 7. Holy Spirit: in Christian Experience

 

MYSTERIES, YES

Truly we live with mysteries too marvellous

to be understood….

 

Let me keep my distance, always, from those

who think they have the answers.

 

Let me keep company always with those who say

‘Look!’ and laugh in astonishment,

and bow their heads.

From ‘Evidence’, 2009. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 85.

 

ONE OR TWO THINGS

The god of dirt

came up to me many times and said

so many wise and delectable things, I lay

on the grass listening

to his dog voice,

crow voice,

frog voice: now,

he said, and now,

and never once mentioned forever,

which has nevertheless always been, like a sharp iron     hoof,

at the center of my mind.

From ‘Dream Work’, 1986. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, pp. 343-344.

  

  1. Believers: Assured, Called and Prayerful

 

 THE SUMMER DAY

Who made the world?

Who made the swan, and the black bear?

Who made the grasshopper…?

 

I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down

into the grass, how to kneel in the  grass,

how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,

which is what I have been doing all day.

Tell me what else should I have done?

Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon?

Tell me, what is it you plan to do

With your one wild and precious life?

From ‘House of Light’, 1990. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 316

 

THE JOURNEY

 One day you finally knew

what you had to do, and began,

though the voices around you

kept shouting

their bad advice-

though the whole house

began to tremble

and you felt the old tug

at your ankles.

‘Mend my life!’

Each voice cried.

but you didn’t stop.

You knew what you had to do,

though the wind pried

with its stiff fingers

at the very foundations-

though their melancholy

was terrible.

It was already late

enough, and a wild night,

and the road full of fallen

branches and stones.

But little by little,

as you left their voices behind,

the stars began to burn

through the sheets of clouds,

and there was a new voice,

which you slowly,

recognised as your own,

that kept you company

as you strode deeper and deeper

into the world,

determined to do

the only thing you could do-

determined to save

the only life you could save.

From ‘Dream Work’, 1986. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 349-350.

 

PRAYING

It doesn’t have to be

the blue iris, it could be

weeds in a vacant lot, or a few

small stones; just

pay attention, then patch

 

a few words together and don’t try

to make them elaborate, this isn’t

a contest but the doorway

 

into thanks, and a silence in which

another voice may speak.

From ‘Thirst’, 2006. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 131.

 

  1. The Necessity of the Church

 ‘I was sent to Sunday school, as many kids are. And then I had trouble with the resurrection. So I would not join the church. But I was still probably more interested than many of the kids who did enter the church. It’s been one of the most important interests of my life and continues to be. And it doesn’t have to be Christianity….’

‘Mary Oliver: Listening to the World.’ Radio Interview with Krista Tippett, ‘On Being’, 5th February 2005. https://onbeing.org/programs/mary-oliver-listening-to-the-world/

 

  1. The Mission of God

 

STORAGE

 When I moved from one house to another

there were many things I had no room

for. What does one do? I rented a storage

space. And filled it. Years passed.

Occasionally I went there and looked in,

but nothing happened, not a single

twinge of the heart.

As I grew older the things I cared

about grew fewer, but were more

important. So one day I undid the lock

and called the trash man. He took

everything.

I felt like the little donkey when

his burden is finally lifted. Things!

Burn them, burn them! Make a beautiful

fire! More room in your heart for love,

for the trees! For the birds who own

nothing – the reason they can fly.

From ‘Felicity’, 2005. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 7.

                       

  1. The Vision of Moral Justice

 

TO BEGIN WITH THE SWEET GRASS

What I loved in the beginning, I think, was mostly myself.

Never mind that I had to, since somebody had to.

That was many years ago.

Since then I have gone out from my confinements,

though with difficulty.

 

I mean the ones that thought to rule my heart.

I cast them out, I put them on the mush pile.

They will be nourishment somehow

(everything is nourishment somehow or another).

 

And I have become the child of the clouds, and of hope.

I have become the friend of the enemy, whoever that is.

I have become older and, cherishing what I have learned,

I have become younger.

 

And what do I risk to tell you this, which is all I know?

Love yourself. Then forget it. Then, love the world.

From ‘Evidence’, 2009. Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 79.

 

  1. Glory: Now and Then, Here and There

 

 GHOSTS

In the book of the earth it is written:

Nothing can die.

 

In the book of the Sioux it is written:

They have gone away into the earth to hide.

Nothing will coax them out again

But the people dancing.

 From ‘American Primitive’, 1983. Devotions, The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p.374.

 

WHEN DEATH COMES

When it’s over, I want to say: all my life

I was a bride married to amazement.

I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.

 

When it’s over, I don’t want to wonder

If I have made of my life something particular, and real,

I don’t want to find myself sighing and frightened, or full of argument.

 

I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.

New and Selected Poems. Vol. 1, 1992. Devotions, The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, New York, Penguin, 2017, p. 285-286.

 

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[1] Interviewed by Maria Shriver, for a poetry edition of Oprah magazine, 2011, Cited by Rachel Syme, ‘Mary Oliver helped us to stay amazed’, The New Yorker, 19th January 2019.

[2] Cited by Ruth Franklin in The New Yorker: The Art of Praying, ’What Mary Oliver’s Critics Don’t Understand’, 27th November 2017.

[3] Mary Oliver: Listening to the World, ‘On Being’, Interviewed by Krista Tippett, 5th February 2015.

https://onbeing.org/programs/mary-oliver-listening-to-the-world/

[4] Cited by Rachel Syme in the above.

[5] ‘Wild Geese’, From Dream Work (1986), in Devotions, 20

[6] The headlines to the sections of this Faith Shaper’s verse derive from the compiler’s paper: ‘Faith Markers on the Evangelical Way: 1215-2021’. In no way are they intended to colonise this poet. They can be found on the Academia platform: www.oxford.academia.edu/IanBunting

[7] ‘Six Recognitions of the Lord’, No. 6, From Thirst (2006), in Devotions, 2017, pp. 127-128.

23.03.2026

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